Once, I was called upon by this young and vibrant youth to help with something. I had thought that the work would be an exhausting one, so I felt reluctant to answer the call. After meeting with this guy, however, I was astounded and I reflected. He wanted help with a writing that, to me, is so simple but, to him, was a mountain.
There I thought about this writing ability I’m gifted with and from there the reflection came upon me,
what if I don’t know how to write, use a communication device, etc., would I have incurred any sin to my account if I don’t know these things? Now that I know them, wouldn’t I incur sins to my account when I fail to use these gifts the right way?
I asked myself further,
should my gift be an advantage for me or a disadvantage? How am I using my gifts?
Extensively, I got myself thinking about what we all are gifted with. It’s not only about a skill but it extends to even our existence.
Is our existence not worthy of been explored to gain good rewards for ourselves? What about our gifts of hands, legs, eyes, and other parts of our body? Shouldn’t those parts be used to gain rewards instead of being used to incur sins?
Most times, we tend to use our concrete and abstract gifts to commit sins. This is a wrong thing to do. Those things should rather be used to gain good rewards for ourselves.
Your beauty shouldn’t be used to destroy. Rather, it should be used to please your legal partner.
Your money should not be used to abuse. It should not be used to show off to the don’t-haves. Rather, it should be used to help, save, and acquire good rewards.
Your children should not be used to spite. Rather, they should be means of gaining good rewards.
Your devices should not be used to indulge in sinful acts. Rather, they should be used to acquire knowledge and gain things.
Your knowledge should not be used to look down on people. Rather, it should be used to save people.
It is a thing of joy to own a car. Isn’t it? But should that car be used to commit evil acts? Think about when someone doesn’t have a car, will such a person have any sinful reward to his reward bank? So now that one is in possession of that car, should it be used to even acquire bad rewards?
Imagine, however, how that car would be a plus for one when one uses it well. One would even be higher up in terms of reward gaining.
Wait here, no one is saying that you should discard your gifts. No, that’s insane. No one is saying that you should feel unhappy for your gifts. No. We all want good things of this life, definitely.
However, use those gifts to help, save, and gain rewards. Don’t hide them unnecessarily and don’t flaunt them unnecessarily. Rather, express them and make them known so you would save humanity with them.
I do envy people who spend on others. This is a virtuous act. Some others, instead, hide their money so people won’t request it from them but that shouldn’t be.
Some others, meanwhile, flaunt their money on irrelevances even though people out there are starving. This is not right as well.
Isn’t it nice to make someone happy? It’s nice my dear. It’s a reason to live.
A Point of Note
Now, you might be wondering, “why am I and should I be gifted this thing?”
Don’t get worried. Your gift is a blessing and a plus.
Also, you might want to over-pull yourself. No, be gentle on yourself. Meaning, don’t overspend or unnecessarily deny yourself.
What I would advise, however, is just to try to, as much as possible, use your gifts well. Also, whenever you make a mistake, try to recall yourself, ask for forgiveness, and follow bad deeds with lots of good deeds.
So, be thankful for your gift and rise up to save someone with it today. You’ll feel a sense of happiness within you I tell you. Use your gifts to gain good rewards today; don’t use them to incur sins.